No loss is ever the same experience twice, which is why it is so hard to find the healing method that works best for us. Due to loss being a universal experience, you can find hundreds of life-affirming films about loss that may inspire your healing or coping mechanisms. Loving Ashes know what it is like to lose a loved one and can recommend 3 movies that inspire life after loss.
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3 Movies Addressing Loss
While we suggest you stock up on tissues before you begin our movie marathon, we hope that they inspire you to change your perspective on grief and how you view loss. Here are our top three picks for films about loss;
1. P.S. I Love You
This film, released in 2007, is one of the most known chick flicks around the world. The story follows Holly Kennedy’s journey through loss after her husband, Gerry, passes away. Due to Gerry knowing that his illness will be the cause of his death, and knowing his wife will have trouble moving on, Gerry leaves behind a letter series to guide her through her first year without him.
These letters help her to address her loss, encourage her to move forward and make the most of life. This film gives an excellent portrayal of grief, negotiating the loss of a loved one and reassures viewers that there is still life after a big loss.
Our rating: 4*
Starring: Gerrad Butler, Hilary Swank
2. The Fault in our Stars
The Fault in Our Stars is a unique teenage love story between two cancer patients, Hazel Grace Lancaster and Gus Waters, who met in a cancer support group. Due to a mutual understanding of what the other is going through, as well as an instant connection, it was inevitable that a romance would blossom, as the two negotiate the unfairness and beauty of the love they have found.
This tear-jerker romance carefully addresses the emotional journey that accompanies loving someone with an illness and turmoil of emotions one feels after the death of a loved one.
Our rating: 3.5*
Starring: Shailene Woodley, Ansel Elgort, Nat Wolff
3. Charlie St Cloud
Charlie St Cloud, a talented sailor and well-rounded high school senior preparing for college, has his world turned upside and future dreams crushed when he is involved in a tragic accident that claims the life of his little brother, Sam. Having shred a special bond with his brother, driven by guilt and consumed by Sam’s loss, Charlie aborts any future plans and social engagements to meet his brother at sunset to play catch.
When an old classmate returns and catches his attention, Charlie is forced to make the choice to remain stuck in his past or make some changes to move on with the rest of his life. This film focuses on the fine line between letting go and hanging on too long.
Our rating: 4.5*
Starring: Zac Efron, Amanda Crew
